~Works For Me~ :-)

I have to say that I have been most pleased with the

response and comments from my blogs this week.. I'm

glad that I can put my 2 cents in on these topics..
And being an amputee for almost 10 years, I'm not

saying I'm an expert.. but Ive questioned a lot of men

and women, devs and amputees.. I find this all to be

very interesting.. Whats even more interesting is

when I have talked, well chatted, with young men

that were embarrassed at how they felt.. They

felt that loving or wanting someone with a disability

or as Normies see us... Less than perfect...was

wrong.. Its NOT wrong ... :-) Works for me!~! :-)

Anyhoway..........

I was in a Yahoo chat room, which one I don't

remember its been a few years and I don't do

chat rooms any more... But I was in the room

and every one was putting their 2 cents in on

what they felt and their experiences.. I got a

private chat message.. It was from a young

man that was still in high school.. a senior I

believe he said. But his first sentence to me

was.. " Lois, I think I'm one of those people

you mentioned.. a devotee! I thought it was

WRONG to care about a girl that was a

amputee.. and Ive been so afraid to say any

thing or ask someone for fear of what they

would think of me"....

This boy was in a kinda bad place.. We talked

for weeks.. I told him its NOT a bad thing to

desire or want a disabled person.. It takes a

very special person to love and care for some

one with a disability and the fact that they

perfer that type of person, whether its a

man or woman.. Me, I give them credit.. It

makes me feel good..


Another time I got a message and it was in

a chat room.. This guy messaged me and we

chatted for quite a while.. I'm very honest,

I have a SERIOUS problem with lies.. I don't

lie.. and I told this guy that I was an amputee.

His reply really kinda hurt my feelings.. he

said "I'm sorry, but I cant chat with you,

there is no point as we can never be real

friends.. Your disabled and I have a problem

with that.. I feel being the able one.. that

the DIS abled one would take advantage of

me if I cared.. I cant talk to you anymore".

Can you imagine, just being a new amputee

how I felt? I was so hurt... BUT.. well I

feel sorry for the guy to be so narrow

minded.. but I think it all boils down to

one thing..

I think from the time we are born, we are

programmed that everything has to be

perfect, unflawed or its not as valuable..

People included... Some countries if a baby

is born with any kind of flaw, that child is

killed.. Here, we don't do that.. but.. is not

what we do just as bad? We treated them

like they are worthless and not useful

people..At least years ago they did.. I try

to remember that movie about that Pres

that was in a chair.. Roosevelt.. when he

went to a spa place and realized how the

disabled were segregated from the

PERFECT people.. I'm glad that's changed.

Well lunch time and I got right back up

on that soap box didn't I ? Well its great

I think, that I can write how I feel, and

I don't mind if someone disagrees with

me and hey.. thanks for the great comments.

I love reading them and mainly to know that

someone likes reading what I write...:-)

I better save some of my thoughts for

tomorrow though.. This post is long enuff..

So... this GORGEOUS WEEBLE is gonna

post this.. and eat lunch.. Pennys gonna

surprise me today.. Probly say "SURPRISE!
I DIDNT COOK!" No.. she will make any

thing I ask. Shes a good kid.. :-) I'm done

for today.. But remember... I SHALL Return!


Always, Lois ****

God Bless You, is my prayer today,

I'm so honored to call you "friend".

I pray the Lord will keep you safe,

Until I write again...