ButterflyLois

Amputee life before and after...

Sunday, February 10, 2013

~Calendars For You~



                                    

My good friend Susan lost her dad... We say
lost, but hes still there with her and she has
wonderful memories, so maybe passed on is
the best wording... I know how she feels, my
dad passed in '89...and I miss him to this day.

As these years have gone on, its been easier
to accept his absent from my life, but at
first it was so very hard.. My dad was such
a wonderful man and a huge influence on me
that I really didn't realize till now ... But he
made me the strong person I am, so did my
mom, they made me independent and taught
me that the very best person I KNOW I can
rely on is ME...

I remember when I found out my dad had
passed, I phoned home to tell them I would
be arriving earlier than expected it was
then my mother told me  "you don't have to
hurry now dear, daddy is gone".... The 6
hour ride home was awful... I was travelling
by bus from Buffalo  NY to Upper Michigan,
that was the longest ride of my life. It took
me 3 years before I could give away his things.
I wore his watch most of the time until I gave
it to my son....

We have snow, then we have snow, AND THEN
we have MORE snow... For the past week it has
snowed every day.. and the storm we just had
yesterday about snowed me in... I learned the
hard way about staying stocked up.. I keep
enuff food for the cats for 2 weeks, me I
always can find something and I have a nice
supply of groceries and I even have one of
those old hand turn can openers, Penny still
wants an electric one, but I have to much on
my counter now... :) and I just got a mail about
the outdoor solar lights will work indoors if
you need them so you don't have to worry
about batteries.. :)

I put a couple of my calendars up there for
y'all but specially for you Mary :)  Y'all stay
safe and warm, and this GORGEOUS
WEEBLE will be back soon...


Always, Lois ****






 



   "God Bless You", is my prayer today,
  I'm so honored to call you "friend"
  I pray the Lord will keep you safe,
      until I write again.....



 

45 Comments:

  • At 1:20 PM, Blogger Sybil said…

    Alwasy pleased when I see you have a blog entry. Although I am sorry that you have had so much snow. Hope hat you are keeping warm and as you say you have plenty foodstuff to get you bye..
    It is cold here now with the threat of snow but I don't think it will reach us in the west of the UK..Fingers crossed. I do wish that spring woudl come quick quick.
    Take care love,
    God Bless,
    love Sybil xx

     
  • At 3:43 PM, Blogger MaryC said…

    thank you Lois for the calenders. I pray you are feeling better.Mary Crites

     
  • At 8:09 AM, Blogger Unknown said…

    How nice to see you here. Hope you are feeling better. Think of you often and prayer for your health. Of course love the calendars...use on my blog all the time.

     
  • At 3:29 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi my dear Lois..hope you're doing okay.. kiddo? as haven't heard from you in awhile.. and so sorry my friend.. you're having it rough again..with those awful pains..hope it eases off for you soon.. I'm thinking of you dear heart. and you're always in my prayers and heart though far apart..hope your snow glow has gone now , ours has here.. it was grand yesterday Saturday.. bright and sunny I think maybe Spring is finally on its way and about time.. it was a tad frosty last night but is sunny and pleasant again today Sunday.... the early Spring bulbs are budding now just peeping and just pushing through the earth in our garden..and lots of new growth and buds coming..on the trees.. we have a lovely clump of nodding white snowdrops near our front door they certainly brighten it up and so nice to see after a long Winter so it seems..anyway must fly away into my new day..
    take care.. my sweet friend..Love you .. big hugs to you and kittys...and your Penny angelxx God Bless you and yours Angie x
    stay safe stay warm..maybe catch ya later sweet potaterxx

     
  • At 11:17 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I want to take this time to thank you all for being so good to my Aunt Lois..unfortunately she has lost her battle and has passed away this morning. She will be greatly missed and remembered forever.....Will love you and miss you Aunty.

    Beverly

     
  • At 1:16 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Beverly I'm so sorry my dear to hear the very sad news your dear Aunty Lois has passed away.. our dear sweet brave special kind, Lois bless her. , I think we'll all miss her very much.. I will a lot.. I really loved that lady..even though we never met yes I'll never forget her she'll always hold and have a special place in my heart.. I hope she's up there with the angels and free of all her pain now.. please accept my deepest sympathies.. and for all her family..take care.. good bye kiddo sweet potater....if you're listening. .. love you too..I'll never forget you.. toodleooxx Love & hugs Angela Maryxx (Angie )God Bless all..

     
  • At 1:22 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Beverly she will be missed by me she where a wonderful Angel with a heart of gold. I will miss her sends and wonderful inspirations my heart goes out to you all
    Much love and light from above down at you all
    Love Veronica

     
  • At 1:36 PM, Blogger Sybil said…

    Thank you so much for lettu=ing me know about your dear Aunt Lois..It is so sad when we lose those we love, and everyone who knew your dear Aunt loved her....Please accept my sympathies for you all at this time.
    Gone and at peace, but never will be forgotten
    Love from Sybil UK xxx

     
  • At 5:04 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Aw, Beverly. I'm so sorry for your loss. Your auntie was a brave soldier, in God's army -- and I have no doubt that she is with Him now.

    Praying for you and your family at this sad time.

    Yes, she's with the angels now, I agree.

    No more pain. No more fear. No more struggle.

    She'll be waiting, shrouded in God's loving light, to greet us all, one day. Such a comforting thought.

    Bright Blessings and Love,

    Faerie (Tracy)

     
  • At 9:57 PM, Blogger Susan K said…

    I shall miss Lois sooo much in my mailbox. What a special, special lady and friend. I am so sad ... we have lost a good one, a huge one. I know God had a special place for her and now she can spend time with my dear Dad. RIP Lois ... :-((
    SUSAN K

     
  • At 10:01 PM, Blogger Susan K said…

    I extend my sympathy to you Beverly and all of the family. God be with you all as you travel this road of loss. SUSAN K
    p.s. I dedicated my Daily Dose page to her today - 20th, and I have her favorite song playing ...
    http://www.susansdailydose3013.com/february-20.php

     
  • At 2:53 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I talked to Penny by phone yesterday, Feb 19. Penny told me our sweet lovely friend Lois passed on yesterday after a long fight with heart problems. A light has gone out in my life.

    Don A

     
  • At 3:23 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    14221 rrentsttLois has been suffering heart problems for some time now. Yesterday Feb 19 she lost the fight and died at home in Michigan early in the morning. We will miss her feisty spirit and upbeat attitude.
    Yes
    Don A

     
  • At 5:16 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Look for me in Rainbows
    Time for me to go now, I won't say goodbye;
    Look for me in rainbows, way up in the sky.
    In the morning sunrise when all the world is new,
    Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.
    Time for me to leave you, I won't say goodbye;
    Look for me in rainbows, high up in the sky.
    In the evening sunset, when all the world is through,
    Just look for me and love me, and I'll be close to you.
    It won't be forever, the day will come and then
    My loving arms will hold you, when we meet again.
    Time for us to part now, we won't say goodbye;
    Look for me in rainbows, shining in the sky.
    Every waking moment, and all your whole life through
    Just look for me and love me, as you know I loved you.
    Just wish me to be near you,
    And I'll be there with you.
    . Vicki Brown
    Love hugs to all family and friends dear Penny angel too(: God bless you all.
    AngiexLois was a dear special sweet lady and friend..it was an honour priveledge to call her a friend..RIP kiddo.. yes I hope you're up there somewhere over the rainbow.. I'll miss and love you alwaysx

     
  • At 7:05 AM, Anonymous raife said…

    My Dear Beverly,
    My deepest sympathy to you and all your family at this sad time. Like many more, I shall miss Lois very much. She was the only person in whom I could confide my innermost feelings. She was so brave, wise and friendly. Despite all her trials, she always seemed so feisty and up-beat when we chatted for hours on Skype.She knew that I prayed for her every day. I just hope that helped her in these last few difficult months. Every time I tickle our Lab, Holly, under the ears, I shall remember "Aunty Lois" asking me to do that for her. Our special "Weeble", we miss you.
    God be with you and bless you, Beverly. Thank you for letting us know.
    Sincerely,
    Raife Collett, in Exford, Somerset, U.K.

     
  • At 3:47 PM, Blogger MaryC said…

    So sorry to hear Lois has passed away, I cry for hours last night when I heard. She is missed so very much, she has touch my life. Mary C

     
  • At 12:04 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am so sorry to hear about Lois.She was a special friend to me and I am heartsick over it. I know she is no longer suffering and in Heaven with so many of our other loved ones. Deepest sympathy to her family and friends..she touched so many of our lives with her loving and caring soul. She will be that butterly that is free. She will be so missed. Carolina

     
  • At 9:17 AM, Blogger Sal said…

    My sincere condolences at this sad time. This lovely lady will be missed by so many. Thank you for your friendship Lois. May you sleep soundly now, with the angels.
    Sal

     
  • At 3:22 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear all.. hello.. sweet.. Lois's loved ones and family and friends....hello .. just thought I'd pop by.. as her blog is still on.. and I don't know if and when it'll be taken off and gone soon.. sorry for this intrusion at such a sad time.. but you were all on my mind .wondering how you are from afar....to say hope you're all coping and doing more okay..you never know what to say.. but you're all in my heart and prayers.. you must be missing her an awful lot ..like us all..I'll always hold a special place and part of her in my heart too.. for such a lovely lady special butterfly.. I hope she had a nice send off and funeral..service and nice flowers and words she so deserved it..
    bless her.. yes like Raife said.. about his beloved dog .. Lois said something similar to me about our new grandbaby when I sent her a picture of him.. he's got such a kissy face give him a kiss from me too..his aunty LOis for me..and she meant it.. and she had him made and knitted.. some lovely baby bootees by Penny angel. and posted them onto me along with a lovely silk scarf which I'll always treasure.. which was so kind of her but that was our dear Lois.. yes I'll never forget her..the world and our lives will be a lot less brighter.. now
    God bless you too Lois my dear friend .. RIP Love you forever and a day.. kiddo.. bye.. Peace Love and Light to everyone always hug your loved ones every day tell them you love them TOO... if and when you can have time....GOOD BYE God bless all.. take care...x

     
  • At 12:21 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Was the an obituary published? I'd like to read it. Her blog was a bright spot in my day. Will miss her grealy.
    Puddy

     
  • At 10:15 PM, Blogger MaryC said…

    I was waiting for the obituar too. I sure was hopping someone would put it in here for us...Mary

     
  • At 11:37 AM, Anonymous Frank from Mass said…

    I always had a great time with her, sure she had her moments, i talked with her and she sounded week, i don't know when it was that we spoke, just around valentines day, i had sent her a valentines card and hoped she had received it. She was a pistol. Fond memories, God Speed Lois, Love you, Frank

     
  • At 12:57 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    While Waiting for Thee
    (Author unknown)

    Don’t weep at my grave,
    For I am not there.
    I’ve a date with a butterfly
    To dance in the air.
    I’ll be singing in the sunshine,
    Wild and free,
    Playing tag with the wind
    While I’m waiting for thee.
    ~~~~~~
    What the caterpillar calls the end of the world,
    the master calls a
    butterfly.
    By Richard Bach
    ~~~~~
    Untitled
    By Jill Haley
    As you release this butterfly in honor of me
    Know that I am with you and will always be.
    Hold a hand, say a prayer,
    Close your eyes and see me there.
    Although you may feel a bit torn apart,
    Please know that I’ll be forever in your heart.
    Now fly away, butterfly, as high as you can go.
    I’m right there with you more than you know.
    ~~~~~~~~~
    A Symbol of Hope
    A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam
    And for a brief moment its glory and beauty belong to our world
    But then it flies again
    And though we wish it could have stayed…
    We feel lucky to have seen it.
    Unknown
    Dearest sweet butterfly.. Lois..hope you're now flying free with the angels.. Rip. Love you miss you dear sweetest of friends God Bless
    Thank you for your friendship too(:x and until we meet again.. you're always in my heartx kiddo

     
  • At 12:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Oh Lordy how I miss our sweet darling Lois. How we laughed and hollered over the phone. Could there be another DAKie like our loverly lady
    out there?

    d

     
  • At 12:19 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Yes I think.. we're all missing our lovely butterfly..my heart aches for you.. same as all of us ours do too....she'll be flying free now hopefully the life and soul of heaven.. maybe? sipping her beloved cuppa teas..(:. I keep coming back wishing thinking she was still here..hoping but sadly..not to be..no I don't think there will ever be another quite as special and unique as our darling..Lois.. so missed still.. hope you had a good send off dearest sweet friend?..wish we knew.. ?missing the unique essences of you.. your spirit, your laughter funny stories so full of life.. I can't believe you're not here anymore still. ..Happy Easter too..up here werever you are(: life goes on my friend ..kiddo but it's not the same without you..just have to remember the good happy times memories and treasure those..take care..Love hugs..God Bless you and yours.. they must be missing you loads your own family like us.. especially Penny angel..got to go dearheart time to go depart.always in my heart.. wherever I go and be always with me. until eternity... love you kiddoxxttfn...

     
  • At 2:47 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hey there "Kddoxxttfn" dear mutual friend of lovely Butterfly Lois ...
    Can u/me somehow electric connect:
    cell or E-Mail? Can we ... can we ... can we?
    Advise D

     
  • At 11:37 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I don't think there was one.

     
  • At 11:44 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Good to see that my mother was so well loved. I read her blog and spoke to her, as we tried to reconnect. But time was not on my side. I went to my Aunts house and took a few things home with me. I am reading her journal now to try and get a better understanding of her.
    R.I.P. Mom
    Your Honeyboy.

     
  • At 5:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    One of the most interesting ladies I ever met. Are you like her?
    d

     
  • At 10:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I don't really know how to answer that. Probably not, I've been married for over 20 years. So I guess I'm a little boring but I'm comfortable with who I am.

     
  • At 5:14 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear "comfortable as I am" lady. I always thought Lois didn't worry much about her situation. At least with me. We Laughed and carried on ... talked about all different things. It was fun ... engaging. I still miss her terrible. I always felt I was a lift to her. Is there another like her out there to have a good time with, enjoy ... feel good about?
    d

     
  • At 10:55 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Or I mean, here's what I mean. In algebra they said if A=B and B=C then A=C! Or like if d likes klatching (as in coffee klatching) with L. And L and X like klatching ... then maybe d and X would like occasionally to klatch. (whew!) If "maybe" then what's next.
    Advise me.
    d

     
  • At 3:21 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…


    Roses For Mama
    © Lynn Casstevens
    Lord, are there roses in your garden
    On the shores of jubilee
    Would you pick a dozen of your best
    And deliver them for me?
    For you see, today is mothers’ day
    And I can’t visit my mom
    For it wasn’t very long ago
    The angels came and took her home.
    So if there are roses in your garden
    On the shores of Jubilee
    Would you pick a dozen of your best
    And deliver them for me?
    Would you take them to my mother
    And tell her that I love her.
    Tell her that I miss her
    In oh! So many ways
    But I have joy in knowing
    We’ll meet again someday
    And we’ll pick roses together
    On the shores of Jubilee.x
    love you miss you dear friendx
    thinking of you on mother's dayxGod Bless x


     
  • At 2:52 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Loverly Lynn C yo mama/rose poem was nice. Not many roses here. I guess it's too early ... lots of tulips and dandelions. Will they do?
    Have a happy.
    d

     
  • At 6:34 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello. I have prosthetic legs and one hand. I am a versatile model/companion. I am fetish/devotee-friendly as well as capable of encapsulating the desires of regular, elite gentle men. I wear the prosthetics only upon request.

    http://ifriends.net/visitme/candy2783

     
  • At 10:03 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Candy ... who are you? Where are you? Sarah N? Lois had some contact with you I know. And we (you/me) did yo bio for Bette H. How do we get together again. I am not up to figuring out your Candy place on the net. OR ... Are you Rachel W ... of the mostest wonderful evening of me quiet life. Wonderful. Is you still as happy and out going as you were that evening? How can we get together I'm not all that computer Literate. Write as a comment through our dear Lois ... <3 <3 D

     
  • At 4:40 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Who ever you are up there D and Candy you should be ashamed of yourselves using our dear Lois's site for this kind of thing , God rest her in peace.. she wouldn't be pleased at all I think..she'd give you a piece of her mind for sure.. shame on you!!you should keep it to yourselves in your private lives or on your own site..for this kind of things..

     
  • At 2:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Sorry, anonymous dear lady, Lois and I “ran” with each other over 5 years. We had a nice relationship, laughing, hollering, telling awful stories. Early on we decided it would be a fun affair, not spoiled by serious thoughts. No heavy breathing. I know if we still runnin’ she would be steamed by any move on my part to suggest there was anyone anywhere who could replace her. But with her gone I know she would giggle at me trying to find another like her. I mean if Candy is Sarah N ... we go back a long way too. Same for sweet darling Rachel. But, no matter, if there’s anyone, anywhere I could bring the same kind of happy to, I’d like to do it. Meanwhile though I admire your loyalty to Lois, I fear it is unwarranted..
    D

     
  • At 8:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…


    My Little Butterfly
    © Barbara Ann Rogers
    Today a little butterfly flew by me.
    I thought to myself where have you been little butterfly.
    You come into this world as a cocoon all by yourself and blossom into
    this beautiful butterfly and fly off to see the world.
    What you don’t realize little butterfly as you flutter through your days
    is how you touch those around you in your soft gentle way.
    You don’t even realize the wonder and awe you create around you.
    she fluttered her wings toward me as if she was waving good-by as she
    headed towards the horizon.
    She looked very happy and content as she went on her way, as if to say
    to me “Don’t worry I’ll be okay”.
    I was sad to see her go for she had touched my heart in such a way that
    I knew my life would never be the same.
    She had left an imprint of all the beauty life has to offer.
    I knew each time I looked at another butterfly or horizon I would
    remember our moment in time when it was only her and I.
    I knew I would be a better person all because this little butterfly flew by
    me one bright sunny day.
    still miss you dear friend kiddo..RIP x love you...




     
  • At 3:30 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Nice ... touching.
    D

     
  • At 5:50 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    There are no goodbyes for us.
    Wherever you are, you
    will always be in my heart.
    -Gandhi


    Those we hold closest to our hearts never truly leave us. They live on in the kindness they have shared and the love they
    brought into our lives. ~ Author Unknown
    love you, still miss your lovely special essence.especially your lovely humour... dearest butterfly friend Lois.. you were a inspiration to us all.. God Blessx hope your celebrating Christmas with the angels now,hugszx

     
  • At 3:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Quoter from Ghandi ...

    Who are you?
    Where are you?
    How can we talk more?
    D

     
  • At 1:49 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…


    Poem On Wing and Wind...
    My butterfly, I remember the
    day we met. You bumped into me.
    Well, sort of floated, from no where,
    and from that moment, I recall what
    I said, 'Well, my little butterfly,
    where did you come from.?

    Butterfly, you laughed, and responded,
    'I picked you out, and just floated down,
    and landed on your shoulder.

    Butterfly, there are many that think
    that a Butterfly, can't laugh, but you did.

    They think that a Butterfly, does not cry,
    but you have.

    Can a Butterfly be happy, cause happiness?
    Butterfly, of mine...you did.

    Can a Butterfly, caused one to nearly burst
    with joy? Butterfly, you did and you have.

    Butterfly, there is not a moment, since I
    met you, that I can not recall.

    Some might wonder what a butterfly, drinks.
    Butterfly, shall we let them know, we became
    intoxicated, as we sipped the nectar of life.

    As my butterfly and I floated through the
    wonders of earth, I wish we could share the
    joy we found, with all of this planet.

    Butterfly, shall we always be together?
    Butterfly, I do not mean, just here on
    earth, I mean until the stars stop shinning.
    Butterfly, I mean, until there is no moon...
    no anything, but my Butterfly and I.

    Butterfly...I think that we will. Butterfly,
    I believe that we were meant to be.




    © Joe Fazio
    nearly a year since you went.. flew away dearest sweet Lois butterfly missed so much this last year,wish you still here , but you'll always be in my heart forever every day.. though apart..now I'm going to let you go set you free fly away.. ..more let you go.. but I'll still love you so.. wherever you go..and fly.. high fly free little butterfly..love you tooxGod bless xtoodleooo until we meet again..up in heaven's domain..

     
  • At 4:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Just thinking of you kiddo. dear friend.. Lois... you came into my thoughts.. mind..still missed a lot.. always in my heart special butterfly(:.. hope you're out there somewhere..and earnt your wings.. heaven will be a much brighter place.. with you in it (: lifes cetainly a lot duller without you in it for sure..take care.. hugs too..love you too.. ..

     
  • At 6:32 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    still miss you dear butterfly..
    hope you're having a happy christmas kiddo.. in heaven,,(: thinking of you dear friend..RIP
    always in my heart..
    Love hugs x
    God Bless you.. & yours.. kitties too if they're still around and here.. they must miss you lots as well..until we meet again..love always xttfn thanks for the lovely memories your kind caring words..friendship too..xlove youx

     

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