~Had A Laugh Today~

I had a good laugh today with my sister. She is so funny.. She

was telling me all the FUN she is having being in that wheel

chair lol.. I had to laugh she got caught between the door facing

and a bookcase, and could do nothing ..I told her.. I just did that

in my sewing room..She quickly replied "I AM NOT going into

mine, no one would find me in there!!!" lol..we are ALOT alike,

specially when it comes to our sewing rooms.. :-) She is finding

out what life is partially like, being in a chair , since she still has

one leg..what its like for me....Said she had a "HELL of a time"

and was SOOO MAD lol.. all I could laugh and say was " I
KNOW SHIRLEY !!" was too funny...:-)

She says this knee wheeler thing she has is about useless.

The wheels dont turn..so to go say around a corner she says

you have to pick it up and turn it yourself..I said I thought that

would be kinda dangerous..well be a good way to lose your

balance..having to pick that up if its all your using to get

around...I don't understand why they wouldnt put wheels , well

casters that swivel..be easier to navigate... She hates that

little thing.. I told my sis, well now your seeing why I dont come

and visit alot..she says "YES, I do NOW" bless her heart..She

is really having a hard time.. she says "I dont KNOW how you

can STAND being in that chair ALL the time".. well its just a

matter of not having any choice, not if I want to be able to go

anywhere... I told her .."well imagine then you had NO legs,

how hard it is.. you still have one.." she said no , she couldnt

that it HAD to be so extremely hard.

But until something happens to us or a family member do we

even THINK there is a possibilty that it can happen to you or

someone you love..that their or your own life could be so

drastically altered..no one is prepared for that.. If you watch

the tv news.. a little elderly lady was found dead at home,

someone had broken into her house.. when they interviewed

the neighbors.. they always say..who would have thought this

could happen here, or to the family or if it was about them,

that it could happen to them.. WELL .. food for thought for ya..

DO YOU SMOKE?? well you need to consider quitting for

sure dont ya? THIS could be the outcome..I didnt know that..

not saying I would have quit..but to find out that it can cause

something else so drastic..cancer is bad enough was a big

deterrent made me slow way down.. I had quit once for 3 yrs..

and big dummy started back...as I gradually got worse with

this tho I cut way back from 2 packs a day to only a few ciggies

like after I ate or something. But I never thought something

this drastic was going to happen to me either.. and it did.

I don't know what I would have really changed that I did b4, to

be honest..I dont think other than the smoking, I really did any

thing that I would change to try to prevent this..as I wasn't really

doing anything but living, working, being married, the usual...

yet here I am..single, in a wheelchair , no legs..only thing hasnt

changed is I'm STILL GORGEOUS LOL... Y'all KNEW I HAD

to say that lol...

Well there is a new photo up top for you... PLEASE ..same rules..

this one was taken the same time but I just took my hair down..

its quite long.. middle of my back I think..and I like long hair..there

are so many more ways to fix it.. It was well is..naturally wavy when

its short it will curl a bit.. when I was small I had ringlets I was a

beautiful baby..I will share that picture with you one of these times..

so you can see even as a wee weeble I was GORGEOUS.. lol..I HAD
TO SAY IT AGAIN :-)

I was lazy all day and I have not eaten..I am starveddddd..so

yup..you KNOW where I'm headed I dont even have to say it do I?

lol.. so ok I wont.. but THAT is where I'm headed..the boys are

sitting here in the doorway looking at me as if to say 'OK OK
come ON!~~!! kids...

Y'all have a good one Y'hear? LUV YA~!~ & Thank you SO

much for the wonderfully sweet comments . I LOVE it :-)

Always, Lois ***

May God Bless you today,

I'm so honored to call you friend,

I pray the Lord will keep you safe,

Until I write again...