ButterflyLois

Amputee life before and after...

Wednesday, July 09, 2008

~Im UPSET Serioulsy UPSET~

Todays blog is very very hard for me to write. I am
so upset and been in tears it has affected me so
deeply.. I have debated to write about it here but I
would like your VERY honest opinion of my photos..
I put my photos here as a way to say hello.. when I
am asked for a more revealing one of the ends I do
take one .. I feel my photos are very innocent, not
provocative or revealing like some photos of amps
that are at other places and websites.. I don't put
them here for any other reason. Today I was informed
my photos are no different from other amputees,
namely russian women that are obviously for sale and
have ulterior motives...such as asking for money among
other things..

This person has known me for a couple years and I
was so deeply hurt that he has categorized me with
these type of women.. The state ment was "Your
photos are no different from any other amputee on
the net, you show your whole self and the ends of
your stumps..." I hate having perfect recall.. But
that was the statement..

This has hurt me so deeply that I am seriously con-
sidering never putting another photo here if that is
the concensis of opinion that I am for sale like so
many others are... I am NOT.. I don't ask anyone
for anything I do NOT sell my self..I'm NOT that
kind of person.. This man insinuated that I am.. and I
got seriously hurt feelings.. If this is everyones
opinion that reads this.. tell me,leave a comment and
tell me what you think..

ARE my photos revealing and suggestive? I don't think
so .. I have grands and sons and women friends read
this.. why would I put something like that on the net? I
don't understand how he sees this in them..

If you ARE coming here for ugly reasons.. not to read how
life is on a daily basis for a dak or to know how I am
because you care.. then please.. don't come back.. I'm here
hoping that perhaps I can encourage someone to help
them to accept amputee life.. I put a smiling photo to show
this life is doable and you can be happy..THATS the ONLY
reason..

Well this man has lost a very good friend.. I will accept no
apology I just wish that he would have told me this when
we first started to talk almost 3 yrs ago.. I guess in a way
he was using me just like he does the other women on
these sites pretending to be their friend to get photos
and videos.. sad.. He will miss me.. I have blocked him
from this blog as well... I hate to lose a friend..but I
guess he really wasn't anyway was he.. Well this very
upset person is going to log off this computer and not
come back to it until tomorrow. as upset as this has me I
may not turn this thing back on ever..

Let me know what you think please.. I would like to know.
If you feel that way too I will NEVER put another photo
of me on this site again.. I want to know.. I am hoping he
is the only one feels that way but well I'm asking and I
want to know.. so tell me... Now, my GORGEOUS WEEBLE
"nitey nite".. :-)

Y'all have a good one now, Y'hear? love ya and thanks !! :-)
ALways, Lois ****

God Bless You, is my prayer today,
I'm so honored to call you "friend"
I pray the Lord will keep you safe,
until I write again .....

10 Comments:

  • At 2:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Lois,

    Hope that you are doing well.
    Me doing quite well after having some health problems.

    Your pictures were never provoking. You are still welcome to post ur picture as u usually do.

    Have a nice day.

    Take care.

    Bye...bye..bye.

    Yashvin

     
  • At 2:52 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Lois dear - I am so sorry to hear about this former-friend. What a jerk. Your photos are absolutely wonderful - always in good taste. To me yours are far better than the ones for sale, because they are offered in friendship. I don't know what else to say.... I can understand why you are so upset.

    Love you as always,

    Butty

     
  • At 3:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Lois
    Some people are just flaming A______'s. Your pictures are wonderful and they reflect who you are as a person. People like that are not even worth mentioning - they are preditors and don't deserve a friend like you. Please don't stop the pix. They are warm, friendly and wholesome. People who know you are curious about the "ends" because you often refer to them. They just want to see what you are talking about. Keep up what you are doing - it only makes people RESPECT you more!!!!!

     
  • At 4:53 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi Yashvin,
    I am glad to hear you are better please take good care of yourself. You are a valued friend... I will keep posting them Yashvin..not to worry :-)

    Hiya Butty,
    Yes, Ive been upset all day about this, I thought we were good friends and I had no idea he felt this way.. I try to show a happy photo to encourage..this life is so not easy.. Thats what I try to show... I didnt know he felt I was no better than the for sale ones..

    Hi..
    Thank you so much such nice things to say...I appreciate that. I know people need to see and know this isnt easy and yes we do need help but not at the cost of our integrity and moral fiber... Maybe I am too old fashioned...but I respect myself, and I try to show that as well..

    Y'all are great and I sincerely thank you.. Your greatly appreciated.. :-)

    Love N'Hugs,
    Always, Lois ****

     
  • At 5:38 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Here's what I say ... Raif has always been a good friend to you ... his nasty comments are completely out of character. Maybe he had a Scotch or three too many. Booze NEVER tells the truth. Maybe some adolescent mind got hold of his 'puter and sent a nasty as a mean prank. I think you are right nice lookin' I find your looks most appealing ... an up lift ... nice ... i smile and feel good. I see pix of Arab women covered from head to toe, vailed, they cover up so's to be unappealing. I like your looks ... I don't care what anyone says ... I do and that's no lie. I don't lie ... well ... sometimes ... especially with women ... the better lookin they are the more likely I am to lie. (My foolist attempt to make light of a rude and unpleasant situation)

    Adoringly ... d

     
  • At 6:47 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Wow Talk about name and shame!!! I said a while back everyone has a different perception of reality. It's a shame... Moments of clairity.

     
  • At 10:08 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Lois

    I come here to read about your life, your part of this world...it left me up to see other in there daily lives...sharing with each other our part of this world, make us understand each other better...what a blessing you are able to share your life with us, so many are not able to share there lives with anyone...how sad...you are a blessing to so many, wonderful way with words you have...love all the different picture you put in here...
    Some people just have dirty minds, and it take God to help them.
    Keep up the good work Lois, you are a blessing to so many.
    Mary

     
  • At 2:37 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi D,
    Yes a very Dear friend, he will miss me as I will him. This sort of insult I dont take lightly. I may have instigated his remarks by stating my opinion of certain "friends" of his.. you know me I call them as I see them and I refuse to apologize for the truth..Thank you D your so sweet...

    Hi ya HB I know its you lol. Im so
    glad to see you here.. Im pleased.

    Hi Mary,
    I will forgive Raife, I do love the man, he was a friend, I thought, for years, its sad a friendship has to end..but everything does doesnt it? I will forgive..but I cant forget...
    You are a blessing too my friend :-)

    Love N'Hugs,
    Always, Lois ****

     
  • At 9:02 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Lois. I hadn't read this post until now, and as you know I'm new to your blog, but you certainly didn't deserve that. I'm sorry someone you considered a friend did this to you. My feelings would have been terribly hurt too. I don't see anything wrong with posting your pictures. That's who you are, and your intentions are good.

    I love your nature photos, and those are the ones that brought me here in the first place. I can see you love many of the same things I do.

    A new friend...

    Kim :-)

     
  • At 9:51 AM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi Kim,
    So nice to hear from you!! Im so glad you like my photos I LOVE taking them only bad thing is now im very limited in what I can take photos of.. Hes apologized, hes a good man, sometimes people get crosswise, human nature..I probly said just as hurtfull back which isnt nice on my part..
    Im PLEASED to have a new friend.. whats so kewl..your not very far from me you know!! :-)
    Love N'Hugs,
    Always, Lois ****

     

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