ButterflyLois

Amputee life before and after...

Tuesday, March 07, 2006

~Decisions, Decisions~


I spent most of today comparing prices for a new
monitor..some prices are very close, the variance is in
the shipping it seems... there are some very good deals
out there and all it is now is deciding which to get.. I have
the money to get it..i just hate to take it out of my check
book isnt that pititful? I am so bad.. Its just SO nice to see
the extra in there and not have to worry about a bill going
thru and I maybe have made one of my mistakes in it lol
Ive been known to do that you know :-) But to have the extra
room here on this desk..and perhaps find a easier way to
type..oh and lets not forget..giving the boys more room to
lay here by me..lol...would be really great for me...and a
slim monitor would give me alot more room, and a bigger
screen as well ...decisions..decisions.. *sigh*

I have gotten messaged lately- by- would you believe FAKE
amputees? yes!!! why do people do that? Pretend to be
something they arent.?..I wonder do they think life in a chair
is fun? I dont understand..its like they are making fun of us that
are.. I read some profiles on some of these fakers.. and you can
tell by that ..its so easy to see..I wish they would NOT message
me..I hate to be rude to anyone..but when it is VERY obvious
that someone is a fake amputee I have a hard time being nice.
The moronic questions they ask you can tell they are just fishing
for things they want to use .lol.. I think the easiest way is that most
of these fakes use the same excuse as to what happened to
them ..why they became amputees..95% say hit by a truck..one
said been a amputee for 7 years and not know what a devotee
is? no lol..just not logical. and the person was supposedly from
Europe??..as many devotees as are there? no this one HAS to
be a fake..I think was a man to be honest..thinking a amputee
woman will talk faster to another amputee woman than a devotee,
well she/he picked the wrong one lol..

I really DONT like to compare myself to another amputee..we are
all so different..and each of us reacts differently to what has
happened to them...I know other amputees and we do NOT
discuss our amputations..unless we ARE having a problem to
see if someone else may have the same and what they did about
it but NOT many of us do..well not the amps I know anyway..we
talk about everything else BUTT...why would we want to really
discuss this with another one anyway? I do if I can help-- otherwise
I dont discuss my amputations with other amputees...women
amputees...that is.. we do discuss devotees however LOL no no
just kidding..well we do pass names along of those that we feel
are not honest and are players..but that is to try to prevent one of
us from getting hurt...

I will admit.. if I DO run into a fake..and can PROVE it.. I WILL
confront them..find out just what they are trying to prove.. to see
what their excuse is for pretending to be something they are not..
I dont really understand it..and I do know it makes me VERY
angry...Honest is the ONLY way to be ..well IF you want to be
my friend...I am..maybe too honest..I tell everything..but well..I
have nothing to hide...I dont think I do anyway lol..I TELL all I
know all about myself- lol -maybe I sometimes even TELL TOO
much..I admit I do have a tendency to do that lol.. I do go into
alot of specifics that perhaps I should keep to myself :-) I think
the word is OPEN :-) ..

Rae was here today but had to leave early and will be here again
tomorrow and will go to the store for me.. I am OUT Of gravy mix
for my fries and gravy now THAT is a HUGE NO NO lol...Got to
have my gravy or fries would just NOT be the same lol..Lunch
was pretty good today..beans and barbecue..not too bad..the
cook hits it lucky every once in awhile.. Sorry about going on about
fakes..but they make me SO mad..I hope if you run into any you
will tell them off too..why hurt people? when its so much better for
you and them to Care about people?? I dont understand...*SIGH*

Well you know what is coming next lol..yup..Im headed to the
KITCHEN..and the boys are sitting in the door way I wonder how
they know when I am almost done typing these posts?? hmmm I
wonder can they read? lol...ok I am hitting PUBLISH NOW...
nitey nite :-)

Y'all have a good one now, Y'hear? LUV YA..& hey..THANKS ;-)
Always,Lois****

May God Bless you today,
I'm so honored to call you friend,
I pray the Lord will keep you safe,
Until I write again...



11 Comments:

  • At 8:42 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi Lois,
    At least we all know that you are not a fake.
    Bonsoir,
    Robert

     
  • At 8:53 PM, Blogger Gray said…

    I'm sorry that happened to you Lois.

    Good luck with the monitor decision. I send you a few ideas.

     
  • At 3:04 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hmmm dearie! I dont think i am one of those fakers, even though i told you i cut of a slice of my thumb when cutting red onions awhile ago....
    To be honest, is easy with you hon... Honest behaviour feeds honest relationships, and i particulary love to have you as my closest and dearest friend. Take care this cold and wintery day (atleast here in the north), and be the loving weeble that force us to put on the computer evry day, in sickness and health!
    Love and KAO´s
    ***+*
    from
    Your own
    Rob

     
  • At 3:51 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dear Lois,
    You know, Rob has a knack of saying it all and leaving this poor Limey to just flounder about!! It's like we can talk to you about ANYTHING and get an honest answer. Bless you for that and your unending optimism.
    Thinking again about yesterdays weblog, having to figure out how to do what the rest of us regard as easy keeps "the leetle gray cells" active and fends off that dance with Dr, Heimer!!! lolol ;-)
    Take care, my dear, lots of love and hugs from
    Raife

     
  • At 9:03 AM, Blogger Lois said…

    Good Morning... So nice to read these sweet comments..What a way to start off my day.. Sweet words..good coffee. AHHHH life is good :-)

    There are always some bad things..but when the GOOD are there..well..the bad kinda fade away, and when you have caring friends...what else can you ask for? well, maybe a new monitor..:-) but that will be remedied soon lol...

    Thanks so very much for a great start of my day...LUV YA!!!! :-)

    Always, Lois****

     
  • At 11:20 AM, Blogger Gray said…

    Nice to see your words in the morning too, Lois!

     
  • At 11:54 AM, Blogger Lois said…

    Well thanks Gray, I wouldnt want you to think I didn't read y'alls comments LOL...hope your having a good day and thanks for all the info..appreaciate it .. :-)
    Always, Lois****

     
  • At 12:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    HI SWEETIE, JUST A SHORT NOTE TO TELL YOU MANY THANKS FOR THE MAIL YOU SEND. I KNOW WHEN I GET ONE THAT YOU ARE THINKING OF ME. SINCE I LOST MY SIGHT MOST OF MY FEW ONLINE FRIENDS HAVE GONE AWAY. NICE TO KNOW YOU HAVE STUCK WITH ME. THANK YOU THANK YOU. LOVE YOU JUDI.

    PS MY GRANDSON READS ALL THE MAIL YOU SEND TO ME LOVE THE MUSIC ONES TOO NOTHING WRONG WITH MY HEARING YET HA HA,

     
  • At 2:39 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    JUDI - JUDI-JUDI- YOU CAN'T GET RID OF ME THAT EASY LOL...I THINK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME...

    OHOH, YOUR GRANDSON READS? I'LL BE CAREFUL WHAT I SEND LOL.:-)

    CHIN UP GIRLFRIEND...I'M HERE & I LUV YA... :-)I'M JUST A HOLLER AWAY... ;-)

    ALWAYS, LOIS****

     
  • At 3:46 PM, Blogger Gray said…

    I've noticed that younger people have no idea about Cary Grant. Makes me feel a little older.

     
  • At 4:55 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    WHO??? LOL :-) Hmmm that name sounds familiar.. :-D
    tee hee ...
    Always, Lois****

     

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