ButterflyLois

Amputee life before and after...

Sunday, February 24, 2008

~Talking~


I was talking to a friend of mine, and Im told how easy I am to
talk to. I retain trivia I guess its from when I worked I kept a
headset on a lot listening to the radio, and I think different things
we hear we keep somewhere In a box in our brains and only
take them out when we need it. All of my adult life, most of my
jobs that Ive worked have dealt with the public.. nursing, my own
business, marketing, managing motels all deal with people, and
talking to them..plus the fact, I LOVE to talk.. :-) bet ya didnt
know that did ya? :-) sure cant tell by my LONG posts :-D

When I lived in Houston, Galena Park and Pasadena, my jobs
that I held were managing motels and houses and marketing. I
worked for a lawyer there, he owned quite a few motels on the
north side and out in Pasadena and Telephone Road... I enjoyed
that work..was quite interesting.. Plus I lived on the property.. The
Blue Top was quite an active place, there were I think 38 rooms.
Im not sure.. On the week ends with the strip bars across the
street, it was nothing to rent one room at least 3 or 4 times. Lots
of activities, some funny, some sad, some were just pure mean
where customers would totally destroy the room, tearing things
apart.

One morning, a man had not left his room at checkout.. The maids
were not sure if it was to be cleaned so I went back to talk to the
room to see what he wanted to do.. I had talked to him for quite a
while when he checked in early the previous afternoon. He seemed
seriously depressed and very sad..He told me he and his wife had
just split up and he just didn't know where to go.. I assured him that
perhaps a good nights sleep might help and to face their problems
after they had time to think and settle down.. He went to his room
and I had not seen him leave, and neither had the evening shift at
all.. I went up to his room, knocked on the door, and what I saw I
had NEVER experienced in my life.. He had committed suicide..
There was a gun laying next to him on the bed and I knew in a
second he was dead.. I felt so bad for him, to be so devastated
that he felt he had nothing left.. Ive never forgotten that... I don't
guess I ever will...

When I worked at the Admiral on the north side of Houston, there
were 15 rooms I think and a huge building in the back that we
called the lodge, 2 floors.. I was working the 2nd shift with my
then boyfriend Sid.. He would make routine checks of the place
and as he entered the lodge , he found it filled with smoke..He
saw the smoke pouring out from around a door to a room that
was in the back by the stairs.. He opened the door and found a
man laying in bed with a cigarette trying to put the flames out on
the mattress.. as he patted and fanned them he hit a bottle of
whiskey or Something he had which fell over onto the already
flaming bed, which made it worse!

Sid was a merchant sea man...he used to work the supply boats
going out of Morgan City to the oil rigs..he was quite strong.. He
litterally grabbed the man.. and THREW him towards the Open
door, In the mean time I had run to call the fire department from
another room that was empty, Sid had run to get the fire putter
outer and by the time the fire department got there it was out..
We never had a dull moment at that place either.. I wonder if
these places are still there.. Be interesting to find out... I ran those
two motels and 2 small side by side ones out in Pasadena, not
far from Mickey Gilleys.. I went there a few times.. That's where
I saw Willie Nelson in person.. I swear he sang Blue Eyes Cryin
in the Rain just to me :-)

I enjoyed the jobs I had when I lived in Texas.. and I loved going
to Galveston to fish.. Sid loved to fish too and usually every week
end we made the trip there and spent the day fishing off the jettys.
The wait for the ferrys at the end of a Sunday was a long one, but
it was either that way or the other long way around..only 2 ways to
get into Galveston..but it is a great town too... I liked it there , but
I honestly missed the 4 seasons that we have here. I got to Houston
in 72 I think...I really don't remember for sure.. But I know I left there
in 83 and moved back up to Indiana to be closer to my newly found
sisters and brothers too.. A move I don't regret making..

My next move is of course to get some dinner.. The kids are due to
come over later, when I called Dawn she was taking the dog, Jerky
out to play for a while.. hes such a big dog..hes chocolate lab..and
very hyper...and HUGE!.. My dolly Kelli has gone to Wisconsin for
another baby shower given by her aunt and gramma there.. I know
she will get lots of nice things.. After her 3rd shower, given by her
friends at work, THEN I told her to let me know what she needs..In
the meantime I am knitting a afgan and I am going to make a couple
polar fleece blankets as well..babies go through stuff So fast in just
one day..so you really cant have too many Of anything, well unless
you want to steady wash clothes every day.

Time to post, time to eat, and time to watch TV, I think the emmys
or some thing is on tonite.. I like watching how some of the women
dress paying thousands of dollars for dresses that I could make
probly for 25.oo :-) Now my GORGEOUS WEEBLE, "Nitey Nite"

Y'all have a good one now, Y'hear? luv ya, and THANKS!!! :-)
ALways, Lois ****

Ps: I couldn't decide which photo, so I put all 2 here .. Do NOT look
at my Ickky hair.. I just wasn't up to tackling the shower today.. It was
a bird bath day.. :-)

God Bless you, is my prayer today,
I'm so honored to call you "friend";
I pray the Lord will keep you safe,
Until I write again.....

3 Comments:

  • At 4:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hi, Honey - Gorgeous Weeble!!
    Thank you for the pic of everyones fav. Weeble! ;o)
    You sure saw life (and, sadly, death) in those Motels. Like they say, "All human life is there"!
    Take care, Honey,
    L.O.L. & G.B.H. from
    Raife

     
  • At 9:00 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Very nice pictures Lois...No we don't have visiting physicians here, I have ask.
    Yes you did have a busy life Lois. It would be hard to fine someone that had committed suicide, with all the why.
    We took that ferrys to Galveston, really enjoyed ourself. My sister in law live in Texas City, had a wonderful visit with her family there...Our 2 oldest children were about 2 and 3 years old.
    Today I was able to go see my friend Roselea at the nursing home about 20 miles from here, she really like it there...She did a lot of talking today, she use to talk all the time...A real nice visit and I ate Supper with her, it was only $2:50 for the meal...it was very good.
    God bless you Lois
    Mary

     
  • At 2:18 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi Raife,
    Ive had some very interesting and educational jobs. Im glad you liked the photos..just me, your friendly neighborhood GORGEOUS WEEBLE :-D

    Hi Mary,
    Thank you..Thats too bad, They should have them everywhere sure helps people like you and your girls..
    I liked texas, loved fishing there, Your a good friend Mary ...

    Good to hear from you :-) hope your having a good monday..
    Always, Lois ****

     

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