ButterflyLois

Amputee life before and after...

Sunday, August 02, 2009

~Little Things Count~ :-)

I was at my favorite spot, watching some tiny butterflys
having a good time out there. I looked at my birdbath,
my flowers, the hummingbird feeder... Just little things,
but such nice things and they make me smile. Like listening
to my chimes when the wind blows, :-) Its so good
that little things count. I remember a conversation with
my mom after my dad died. We, as in David and I, had
finally talked her into getting an electric garage door
opener, so she could just flip a switch and the door would
open. She had a 2 car garage, and my mom was only 4 foot
11 inches tall.. not a very big lady.. The big garage doors
were a huge challenge for her, but she did it, and she
would lift that big door. My dad had them rigged so they
did open VERY easy.. I KNOW, I had to do it MANY times.
But my point is, mom said, "that garage door opener is so
nice, daddy wanted one for a long time and I always said,
no, that we were still able to open them." so we never got
one.. I wish NOW we had, its such a little thing, but it
sure would have been nice for daddy to have at 80 years
old and not have to open those doors by hand. Just a
little thing.. but it would have made such a BIG difference."
Isnt that just true? :-)

Little things do count..finding a birdbath, planting some
flower seeds.. feeding the birds..listening to some pipes
bang together to make such nice sounds, all small things,
but every time I hear my chimes, I smile, when I see a
bird drinking or the dirty robin taking his daily half hour
birdbath, I smile, watching these tiny hummers get braver
and braver every day, coming closer to me.. Just little things.
But all very worthwhile things.. I am most grateful that I
can still see these things, hear the sounds.. and mainly that
they still make me SMILE :-D....

That whole year when I first got out of the hell home, in
2002, January, in fact, the date I am not sure, I THINK
was before my birthday, which is the 20th of January.
That whole year when I had that infection and before
this computer, I sat and looked out my windows of the
apartment. I looked for some photos but I don't have
any on this computer. But I LOVED that field. Watching
the ground hog family and the geese, the wildflowers
drew all kinds of butterflys and when they bloomed that
field was beautiful... Sad they destroyed it to build new
apartments. But I sure enjoyed it while I was there.
"Was nothing but a big empty field", I heard someone say,
they didn't look for all the life out there, they were too
busy to notice. Take time to notice the little things... its
worth it..

I knew I had a photo of my dad with the binoculars.. and
to date it, It was 1957. My "sister" Gayle and her hubby,
Clifford, are on the top left, she is expecting their only
child, Michael, he was born Oct. 23, 1957. You see my
dad has the binoculars in his hands. Do you see me right
there in front? I was GORGEOUS then too :-) We were
at Porcupine Mountains, up in the UP of Michigan, one of
the loveliest places up there. My Uncle Ernie, Aunt Gladys,
and their 3 sons, Dennis, his wife Janet is there too, and
Bobby and Dickie. My mom took the photo :-)

Todays drama? I lost the boy for about 3 hours till I was
about totally nuts worried and looking for this cat. He, I
mean Dutch, of course. I was sitting at the back door, and
a black cat came up to it, scared the daylights out of me
AND the cat. Beautiful thing.. I keep a dish out there with
cat food, just in case a stray might be hungry. Well, the
dish was empty so I went and opened the cupboard to get
some out of the plastic container I keep the boys food in.
I filled up the bowl, put the jug back, closed the door,
and put the bowl of food outside..


I sat for quite a while, drank a coffee, I bet at least an
hour. LB kept coming up to me tapping me on the arm,
meowing Mum, Mum.. his usual.. I went and made a pair of
shorts for ALex, another hour went by. I then noticed how
the sun was coming in, which is one of Dutch's favorite
things to do is to lay in it.. Well he was no where around..
So, I started to look for the kid.. I bet I went in and out
of my closet 3 times looking for this cat... I asked LB...
"WHERE'S BROTHER?" all he did was run back into the
kitchen.. I sat for a minute and thought .. 'ohhh crap, I bet
he got outside while I had the door open trying to get that
cat food dish'. I hurried to the door, I didn't see him out
side.. So.. I KNOW if this cat is with in earshot, when I
rattle the treat bag, that CAT will come.. I did that.. and
NO DUTCH!!.. :-(

I asked LB again.. he was standing in front of the fridge,
LB turns and looks at the cabinets where I keep the cat
food, next to the drawers.. I say to my self.. 'Nooo, hes
NOT in there, he would have banged on the door !.. :-)
Well.. I opened that door and here Dutch is laying there
all squinty eyed, he just decided to take a nap and wait
for me to find him.. I told him NEXT time he does that
I REFUSE to look for him :-) They are as bad as kids!
Have to keep your eyes on them all the time ! :-)

Well, my eyes keep looking out to the kitchen. I have
some left over meat pie that is calling me and I think
this GORGEOUS WEEBLE needs to eat some of it. Its
very good, wish you could come and share it with me.
There's plenty. I may freeze what I don't eat, saves
cooking for one day :-) Post time and "I'll be back" time.

Y'all have a good one now, Y'hear? luv ya and THANKS!
Always, Lois ****

"God Bless You", is my prayer today,
I'm honored to call you Friend.
I pray the Lord will keep you safe,
Until I write again...


4 Comments:

  • At 10:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hello Lois

    My grandson Jason came again today and finish up the car...wow so very happy...It took two whole days...
    He had two weekend off and all he did was work on cars, last weekend it was his girlfriend car...
    It was so nice seeing them here, and visiting with them...my daughter Beth came by twice and visited too...I feel so blessed...
    Very nice picture of your dad and the rest of the family too.
    Our pets sure can give us a scare from time to time.
    God bless you Lois.
    Mary

     
  • At 4:16 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    There is so much to you, sweet lovely lady ... so much more than a pretty smile and a hank of hair.

    yeah

    d

     
  • At 6:30 AM, Anonymous momar said…

    My cat, star has a hiding place in the ceiling - there is a hole in the sheet rock and star can jump up in the hole. She comes down in the early morning - I feed her about 7am.

     
  • At 12:40 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi Mary, d, Momar,

    I want you to know how much I appreciate you coming here and letting me know you do.. I LOVE it.
    Thanks for being my friend.. You are all a great blessing to me..
    Thanks bunches...Im so glad you like my daily dramas :-)
    Life is good ..
    Love N'Hugs,
    Lois ****

     

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