ButterflyLois

Amputee life before and after...

Friday, December 15, 2006

~The Article!~ good job Elena :-)


This is the front page of our local paper.. You see over
on the left..is me..telling of the story on the inside..Its
a very good story. I had Penny go out and get the paper
for me..as we were both waiting for it on pins and needles..
She came slowly walking up to me saying "what is this??"
I looked saw the picture of the young man, me..I said "what?"
Penny is looking very closely at this man..looks at me..said
"hes asking MY NEICE to marry him!!! She was so surprised..
I said what a coincidence it was and she not knowing about
it lol.. When she went to get the papers for us..we each bought
a few lol..she told the lady at the store that it was her niece then
pointed out the story about me..and said she was my care giver
mentioned in the story..The store gave her 4 newspapers ..:-)
now that was nice ..

The story took up half a page as you can see here..along
with the picture..Its NOT my best..But .. I have a lovely smile..
please notice that. I am very happy..and look at the dear
man pushing my chair..he seems kinda happy too doesn't
he? They did such a great job..you can see the side rails
and how nice and wide..no fear of going off the sides..they
widened it up by the door..and look by the left at the top of
the ramp you can see the mailbox where they moved it to.. It
was on the right..about where the middle of the side rail post
is..at the bottom of the steps..

This is the left 1/4 of the top half..I don't have my scanner up so
I couldn't scan this..Donald is due to come over and I had hoped
before I posted so I could scan the paper but I had to use my
web cam..still you can read it if you look closely..Elena is a
very good writer and took great notes..The blog is mentioned..
there is only One mistake..and I will type it very fast in case the
boys are reading lol..no.. she mistakenly said they were dogs..
which I LOVE dogs.. I do.. I wish I could have a shepherd again..
but to take one out.even with a ramp..would just be too hard..
Ive always had one though..I had twins once.. Jesse and Jake..

If you cant read it..and want to ..drop me a email and I can
send you a paper or..send you what it says lol..My name
in the paper for something so good..I am pleased.. This
wasn't about me ..really..but of some great guys..and a
company that have heart..and care..willing to do something
because...well.you just FEEL like doing it.. I think they all
4 need a big atta boy pat on the back.. . Home Depot for
donating the wood..well Thanks to them too.. I plan to go there.
I think this is such a good thing.. Its hard to find help some
times, I had really looked and was getting so very discouraged
y'all know that..fooey, I think I whined every nite about that
lol. And every one said "YES DEAR, you did" :-)..well
lets say this is ONE ..as in 1 less thing I have to wine about lol
No I try not to..I do..does no good really.. you have to do some
thing..I called everybody and their brother, aunt, uncles even
their redheaded step children I think to try to get some help..
Every agency is so limited on exactly what they can do..BUT
the biggie is..they give you so much paper work to fill out and
things YOU have to do.. three fourths of the way through you
get so tired..your ready to give up..and that's what they count
on.. I wont give up.. I WILL find a way..may take my ear falling
off but..well.. I do what I have to.. I wont take something cuz
its free..if I NEED it I will..but only then..

Elena mentioned my little world here ..this blog..I love it here..
I get to say what I want..tell what this life is all about..make
everyone realize always getting to sit is NOT the best thing to
want to do.. I could tell you a major body to part to ask about
that now ..... trust me.. She put the blog addy..and I wanted you
to be able to read this one main part..about here and everyone
that reads this GORGEOUS weebles 2 cents worth lol..
my "national and international friends who encourage her in her
life" that IS what you do.. when you tell me Im amazing or pat
me on the back for a job "well done!" means a lot to me.. If I can
by what I say..make someone understand just how hard it is
and what my daily life is..a challenge..I tell it all.. I don't mind
being me..and if it bothers someone else..well..then leave me
alone.. This life is hard enough..life is rough.for all of US..if we
cant help each other ..that's sad..and I hate that, like I told Elena,
the hardest part..is LIVING, its a daily challenge...

I tried to explain to Elena about the 2 worlds I live in..which I do..
and I love both of them, theres good and bad in no matter WHAT
world you are in.. I love both my worlds..they are problems in both,
issues..the devotee/admirer issue..I have no problem with it..and
I will discuss it openly, I will tell what I do to be able to survive,
live here and do what I have to do to make this life easy as I can..
When I had to go to that Homeless shelter for that month.. the total
feeling I felt, that I had let my OWN , ME, Self..down..that I was just
no where, no one, and nothing..and cried.. neither world seemed
did I belong in- then..WELL. ..I wasn't staying there.. I hated it..
I was coming out of that place.. and I did..im here.. its all doable..
harder at some times more than others..once I get these deposits
caught up..and these floors..and my chair..and get lots of good
stuff for Christmas.. hehehe..I HAD to say that you know.. .look
at the date tho.. wasn't it only a few weeks ago I said I was going
to get a start on Christmas early? back in July? lol Just shows how
that worked hey? I got nuthin done.lol. that's the joys of Christmas.
you get all busy and rush around..then by the time it gets here you
are SO ready for that GREAT dinner lol and can just eat all that
other misery of shopping and spending and rushing around away.

I hope Gary Chartrand, I went to school with a Jimmy Chartrand in
the UP..related to Alice that lived across the street..lol..and his
business does great....my ramp is good advertising for some
very deserving people and a great store and great notice for a
good writer..or should I say ANOTHER great writer lol.. Well Im a
great writer too..!!! lol..Ive been seriously considering putting
a book together of my writings.. 2 different types of stories tho..
Donnie called earlier and he will be stopping by to pick up some
chicken Penny got that was on sale at Meijers..and she got some
doughnuts that I LOVE!!! lol so I want the blueberry one and if he
gets here before I get out there..well you KNOW where that thing
will go don't ya? ya!! in the WRONG stomach lol..
Hope you liked seeing my name in print so to speak ..lol..wait
till I phone my sis..two of the 10 copies I got, she wants.. one
to send to HER sister Deidre in Florida..shes not my sis..lol
we have my sis..her sis and our sis ..we were adopted ...and
raised separately..we didn't meet until I was in my 30's..I am
SO grateful for that..Shes the VERY best sister a woman could
have..not at all like the other I have in Hawaii..lets not go there lol
to Hawaii ..yes..yes but not to that story lol. I could tell you a
LOT better bed time story than that one..Sorry for the long post.
lol oh well ..time for bed..shut them eyes.. Nitey nite.. :-)


Y'all have a good one now Y'hear? luv ya..and thanks.. :-)
ALways, Lois ****

God Bless you is my prayer today,
I'm so honored to call you "friend";
I pray the Lord will keep you safe
until I write again..

9 Comments:

  • At 8:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Well Lois, Wonderful Article... now get it scanned so we can read it.. LOL...

    Now you are going to be away from your computer and out and about creating havic all around Three Rivers.

    This is so exciting!!!

    Wilbur

     
  • At 8:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    WOW it wonderful Lois, you look great in the picture too...Mary

     
  • At 9:00 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi Wilbur..
    yes I will scan it tomorrow..she did a great job..Naaa
    I like my little weeble house..and everything thats right here..I will go out more now..but I dont have anywhere to go..or anyone to go with :-( My knight hasnt gotten here..im waitin and lookin but..well no sight yet..

    Thanks Mary!!! hope you had a good day and are relaxing and enjoying your night..Im headed for that doughnut lol..

    Good Night my Friends .. :-)
    Always, Lois ****

     
  • At 9:28 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I guess it is good to get out. Most of us take it for granted when we go down our front steps. Once when I lived on the sout shore of Long Island our street flooded up to the curbs in a cloud burst. There is a guy I know who is similar a dak wheelchair bound, but he owns a van and travels a lot. I do not travel very far. soon I will have 2 houses to look after.

     
  • At 10:01 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi Momar,
    I sometimes just sit with the door open..and I think the main part of going out is getting different air to breathe, and maybe things to see..all kind of treats to certain parts of our selves. I never get bored..no matter how long I stay inside, Ive stayed inside for long long periods of time..yet never can I say I did not find something to do..I KNOW it looks like eating was the MAIN thing I found to do..My computer got me up and out this time..last time in the hellhome was my sewing machine, and sewing again. a challenge facing me..I love to sew and create..I miss that..I will miss not having a sewing room..I do already I would have had the curtains done already lol..

    Soon Momar you will be so busy you will pass your own self 3 or 4 times a day my busy friend :-) you would wither away and melt if you could not stay as busy as you are, thats your programming :-)

    Sweet Dreams.. :-)
    Always, Lois ****

     
  • At 8:47 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Dearest dear one!
    Your knight is waitin eagerly for the right occasion to com. It hasnt accured yet, but when it does, you aint safe for my fondling hands anymore.
    You are lovely amd the article is something i longing to read!
    Take care dear.
    Your own
    ROB
    (with the usual KA...you know what)

     
  • At 9:24 AM, Blogger Lois said…

    Good morning Rob..
    How nice to hear from you I hope all is well by you..and you have no more health scares..

    I am working on getting my scanner up today, just a matter of moving things around to find where they go lol..everything HAS to have its own place when the spaces are so limited..

    Take care Rob..have a nice SatDay.:-)
    Always, Lois ****

     
  • At 3:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    I am so glad you finally your ramp......there are good people in the world I know it may not seem like it sometimes.but God has angels everywhere..may take a little while to find them........you know you are one of them too.....you be good when your out and about ....don't get into trouble...lol
    just kidding!! well a little :)
    Hugs,
    Lynn

     
  • At 6:12 PM, Blogger Lois said…

    Hi Lynn..
    So nice to hear from you.. Yes, Angels are,I think we all have them in some way or another, and we are all angels at one time or another :-D I had to say that lol..

    Well Ive always tried to treat everyone how I want them to treat me, TLC goes a long way..no matter who its given to ..human or animal..it works.

    My Rampers are a good thing and I wish them well, a good profitable company..they deserve it..

    Penny & I may go to Sturgis .. she cant handle my chair..shes no bigger than a minute..but I will see if she can go with me..to help .. I hope so..
    Good to hear from you Lynn..Im off to write tonites post..I have NO idea what to write about lol..ok..you believe that yes? lol

    have a good one hon...
    Always, Lois ****

     

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